Virginia Messina, NCPS
- Relationship and trauma
- Mindfulness-based support
- English and Italian
About Virginia Messina
Her practice is grounded in client-centered principles and mindfulness-based techniques, offering an authentic, direct and non-judgmental space for deep therapeutic work. She addresses issues such as dysfunctional relationships, codependency, domestic violence, grief and emotional regulation, while also attending to concerns around attachment, abandonment and intimacy. Virginia emphasizes the therapeutic relationship as an active, transformative space and encourages prospective clients to get a clear sense of her style before committing to work together.
She is present and engaged in sessions, sometimes provocative when needed, and brings a measured touch of sarcasm and humour - swearing is welcomed if it feels right. Virginia works best with adults who want to reconnect with their inner freedom, understand habitual patterns and make authentic, sustainable choices. Creative expression - through art, poetry, music or other forms - is welcomed as part of the therapeutic journey. She is not the right fit for those seeking to idealise their therapist or have their problems solved for them. Note for Italian clients - she prefers to use the formal "Lei" to maintain a clear and respectful therapeutic frame.
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Frequently Asked Questions
How much experience does Virginia Messina have?
Virginia Messina has 3 years of experience.
Is Virginia Messina a registered therapist?
Yes. She holds the NCPS credential.
In which languages does Virginia Messina provide therapy?
Virginia provides therapy in English and Italian.
Where is Virginia Messina located?
Virginia is located in the United Kingdom.
How can I work with Virginia Messina as my therapist?
You can work with Virginia through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.
Does Virginia Messina work with international clients?
Virginia Messina does not currently work with international clients.
How much does therapy with Virginia Messina cost?
The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be cancelled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.
How can I get started with therapy?
Getting started is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.
Therapeutic Approaches and Online Support
Virginia integrates client-centered work and mindfulness alongside trauma-focused strategies to tailor online therapy to each person. Client-centered therapy focuses on building a trusting, empathetic relationship where the client’s experience leads the work - it helps with relationship struggles, self-esteem and decisions about how to live more authentically. Mindfulness therapy teaches present-moment awareness and practical techniques for managing stress and anxiety, supporting emotional regulation and reducing reactivity. Trauma-focused therapy concentrates on understanding and processing the effects of relational trauma and abuse, offering ways to restore safety, rebuild trust in relationships and lessen trauma-related symptoms.
Finding the right approach is part of the collaborative process. Virginia works with clients to identify goals, preferences and needs, and she adapts methods over time so therapy feels fitting and effective rather than one-size-fits-all.
Online sessions via video, phone, live chat or text-based messaging make it possible to access regular therapy with greater flexibility. These options allow scheduling that fits busy lives, continued support during transitions, and easier access for those who prefer remote formats. Registered professionals can use these formats to provide consistent, goal-focused care that aligns with each client’s circumstances and pace.