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Valerie Harmer, BACP

Solution-focused therapist for relationships and anxiety
  • CBT and mindfulness
  • Short or long term
  • Video phone and text

About Valerie Harmer

Valerie Harmer is a solution-focused therapist who helps people understand what is sustaining their difficulties and what small, practical changes could move them forward. She works collaboratively, listening without judgment and asking focused questions to map the different parts of a problem so that clients can recognise patterns and try new approaches. Her practice supports both individuals and couples with a wide range of emotional and relationship concerns, including anxiety, low self-esteem, anger, OCD, phobias, depression, bereavement and relationship difficulties.

Her approach is pragmatic and change-oriented, offering both brief and longer-term work according to each person’s goals. Valerie draws on a mix of Solution-Focused methods alongside Cognitive Behavioural Therapy - a structured method for identifying unhelpful thoughts and behaviours - and Behavioural Activation to encourage practical steps toward improved mood and functioning. She has trained to postgraduate level in Counselling and CBT Psychotherapy at the University of South Wales, completed a Diploma in Solution Focused Hypnotherapy at the Clifton Practice in Bristol, and trained as a bereavement counsellor with CRUSE.

Valerie is a member of the BACP - the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy - and follows their professional guidelines, including regular supervision and ongoing professional development. She offers respectful feedback and clear guidance while supporting clients to break unhelpful cycles and work toward their goals.

Areas of Expertise

Also Specializes In

LGBTFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesDepressionCoachingADHD

Additional Focus Areas

Attachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingLife purposeMidlife crisisObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Social anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic Approach

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Mindfulness Therapy Solution-Focused Therapy

Frequently Asked Questions

How much experience does Valerie Harmer have?

She has nine years of experience working in counselling and psychotherapy.

Is Valerie Harmer a registered therapist?

Yes. She holds membership of the BACP, the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy. Registration details were not provided.

In which languages does Valerie Harmer provide therapy?

Therapy is provided in English.

Where is Valerie Harmer located?

She is located in the United Kingdom.

How can I work with Valerie Harmer as my therapist?

You can work with Valerie Harmer through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Valerie Harmer work with international clients?

She does not currently work with international clients.

How much does therapy with Valerie Harmer cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be cancelled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Practical therapeutic approaches for online support

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, helps people identify unhelpful thoughts and behaviours and then practice new ways of thinking and acting to reduce distress and improve daily functioning. It is often used for anxiety, depression, obsessive thinking and related difficulties.

Mindfulness Therapy teaches simple awareness skills that encourage noticing the present moment without harsh judgment. These practices can reduce stress, lessen rumination, and support emotional regulation when life feels overwhelming.

Solution-Focused Therapy is a goal-oriented, collaborative approach that concentrates on strengths and small, achievable changes. It helps clients clarify what they want to be different, spot existing resources, and build practical steps toward those goals.

Finding the right mix of approaches is part of the therapeutic process. Valerie will work together with each person to agree which methods best match their needs, goals and preferences, adjusting the plan as progress is made.

Online therapy using video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text messaging offers flexibility and accessibility for busy lives. These options make it easier to fit sessions around work, family or mobility needs and allow continuity of care for people in different locations within the United Kingdom. Registered professionals and therapists can deliver structured, collaborative treatment effectively through these formats, helping clients make meaningful changes from wherever they are.

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