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Sueli Montilha, BACP, NCPS

She is a trauma-informed psychosexual therapist
  • Trauma and sexual wellbeing
  • Multicultural and intersectional practice
  • BACP and NCPS registered

About Sueli Montilha

Sueli Montilha is a UK-based psychotherapeutic practitioner with a strong focus on trauma, relationships, and sexual wellbeing. She trained through an Advanced Professional Diploma in Psychotherapeutic Counselling and holds a CPCAB Certificate in Counselling Children, a Postgraduate Certificate in Low Intensity Psychological Interventions, and an MSc in Contemporary Psychosexual Therapy completed with distinction. She also holds professional credentials with BACP and NCPS - BACP is a professional membership for counsellors and psychotherapists, while NCPS denotes an additional recognised counselling credential.

Sueli brings experience from both the charity sector and the NHS, working with children, young people and adults across a range of difficulties. Her clinical work covers complex trauma including sexual trauma, common mental health concerns such as anxiety and depression, relationship and communication challenges, and a wide spectrum of sexual wellbeing and dysfunction issues - including erectile or ejaculatory difficulties, arousal and desire concerns, painful intercourse, and problems with orgasm.

Originally from Brazil and having lived in multiple countries, she adopts a multicultural, intersectional approach that respects diverse backgrounds and identities. Working from a bio-psychosocial framework and with awareness of Gender, Sex, and Relationship Diversity (GSRD), she supports people of all genders, sexualities, and relationship configurations, including couples, throuples, and other consensual multiple-partner relationships. Sueli approaches therapy with the aim of supporting and empowering individuals on their wellbeing journey.

Areas of Expertise

Also Specializes In

LGBTFamily conflictsGriefParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesDepressionCompassion fatigue

Additional Focus Areas

Adoption and foster careAttachment issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameImmigration issuesInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyMen's issuesMidlife crisisMulticultural concernsPanic disorder and panic attacksPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSelf-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Frequently Asked Questions

How much experience does Sueli Montilha have?

Sueli Montilha has 6 years of professional experience.

Is Sueli Montilha a registered therapist?

Yes, she holds these credentials: BACP, NCPS. No further registration details were provided.

In which languages does Sueli Montilha provide therapy?

Sueli provides therapy in English.

Where is Sueli Montilha located?

Sueli is located in the United Kingdom.

How can I work with Sueli Montilha as my therapist?

You can work with Sueli through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Sueli Montilha work with international clients?

Sueli Montilha does not currently work with international clients.

How much does therapy with Sueli Montilha cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be cancelled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Evidence-based approaches for online psychosexual and trauma care



Sueli integrates contemporary psychosexual therapy techniques into her work, focusing on sexual wellbeing, desire and arousal concerns, painful intercourse, orgasm difficulties, and sexual function issues. This approach combines education, communication strategies, and therapeutic exercises to help clients understand and address sexual concerns in the context of their relationships and bodies.

She also uses low-intensity psychological interventions, which involve structured, focused techniques drawn from evidence-based therapies to address anxiety, low mood, and stress. These interventions are practical and can be helpful for building coping skills and reducing day-to-day symptom burden.

Finding the right approach is collaborative - Sueli works with each person to identify which methods fit their needs, goals, and preferences, adjusting the plan as therapy progresses. Registered professionals and therapists often blend techniques to create an individualized pathway that reflects the client’s circumstances and priorities.

Online therapy options - including video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging - offer flexibility for scheduling and access, making it easier to maintain consistency in care. These formats support ongoing communication and allow Sueli to work with clients in ways that suit their routines, comfort levels, and practical constraints.

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