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Shelley Wilman, BACP

Experienced UK therapist for trauma and relationships

  • Integrative therapeutic approach
  • CBT and EMDR offered
  • Flexible online sessions

About Shelley Wilman

Shelley Wilman brings three decades of professional experience to her practice in the United Kingdom. She is a Chartered Psychologist and a registered member of the BACP - the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy - credentials that reflect a long-standing commitment to professional standards and ongoing development.

Shelley works in an integrative way, tailoring methods to each person rather than relying on a single approach. She has supported people facing stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, grief, depression, low self-esteem and challenges with motivation and confidence. Her practice also addresses relationship and family difficulties, intimacy-related concerns, anger, and a wide range of related issues such as abandonment, body image, cancer-related adjustment, and isolation.

She offers evidence-informed interventions including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), using these tools alongside client-centered and existential perspectives as appropriate. Shelley views each client as the expert on their own story and focuses on identifying strengths that can help in moving through difficult experiences. She aims to create a supportive space where taking the first courageous step into therapy leads to clearer understanding and practical choices for change.

Areas of Expertise

Also Specializes In

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesAnger management

Additional Focus Areas

AbandonmentBody imageCancerCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily problemsGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPost-traumatic stressSelf-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic Approach

Client-Centered Therapy Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Existential Therapy Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) Solution-Focused Therapy Trauma-Focused Therapy

Frequently Asked Questions

How much experience does Shelley Wilman have?

Shelley Wilman has 30 years of professional experience.

Is Shelley Wilman a registered therapist?

Yes. She holds these credentials: BACP. Registration details: .

In which languages does Shelley Wilman provide therapy?

Shelley Wilman provides therapy in English.

Where is Shelley Wilman located?

Shelley Wilman is located in the United Kingdom.

How can I work with Shelley Wilman as my therapist?

You can work with Shelley Wilman through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Shelley Wilman work with international clients?

Shelley Wilman does not currently work with international clients.

How much does therapy with Shelley Wilman cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be cancelled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Therapeutic Approaches and Online Support



Shelley commonly uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to help people identify and change unhelpful thinking and behaviour patterns - a practical approach often used for anxiety, depression and stress-related problems. She also provides Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) for those working with traumatic memories; this method aims to reduce the intensity of distressing memories and associated reactions. In addition, Shelley draws on client-centered principles, focusing on listening, empathy and the client’s own goals to guide the pace and shape of therapy.

Choosing the right approach is part of the therapeutic journey. Shelley works collaboratively with each person to explore which methods fit best with their needs, goals and preferences, adjusting the plan as therapy progresses and new priorities emerge.

Online therapy with Shelley is offered via video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text-based messaging, providing flexibility for different schedules and communication preferences. These options make it easier to access regular support without the need to travel, and they allow registered professionals to maintain continuity of care in ways that suit each client.

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