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Paula Ciocirlau, BACP

Compassionate psychotherapist guiding meaningful change
  • Person-centered approach
  • Solution-focused strategies
  • Speaks English and Romanian

About Paula Ciocirlau

Paula Ciocirlau is a dedicated and compassionate psychotherapist based in the United Kingdom who supports people as they navigate life transitions, manage stress and anxiety, and work toward personal goals. She creates a supportive space where clients can explore their thoughts, emotions, and behaviours and develop practical strategies that foster lasting change. Therapy with Paula is collaborative - she provides professional guidance while recognising that each person is the expert on their own life. Together they set goals and choose therapeutic approaches tailored to the individual, whether addressing relationships, grief, career concerns, trauma, or day-to-day coping.

Paula began her psychotherapy training in 2016 in Vienna, Austria, and draws on Systemic and Person-Centered Therapy, using either one approach or a blend depending on what is most helpful for the client. Her international studies and life experience inform a culturally aware practice that connects with people from diverse backgrounds. Paula holds BACP - membership of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy - and offers sessions in English and Romanian. She is accepting new clients, including international clients, and provides flexible session formats such as video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to suit different needs and schedules.

Areas of Expertise

Primary Focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesParenting issuesCareer difficultiesDepression

Also Specializes In

AddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersAnger managementSelf esteemBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional Focus Areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHearing impairedHIV / AIDSHoardingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTraumatic brain injuryTrichotillomaniaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic Approach

Client-Centered Therapy Solution-Focused Therapy Internal Family Systems

Frequently Asked Questions

How much experience does Paula Ciocirlau have?

Paula has 8 years of experience working as a psychotherapist.

Is Paula Ciocirlau a registered therapist?

Yes. Paula holds BACP - membership of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy.

In which languages does Paula Ciocirlau provide therapy?

Paula provides therapy in English and Romanian.

Where is Paula Ciocirlau located?

Paula is based in the United Kingdom.

How can I work with Paula Ciocirlau as my therapist?

You can work with Paula through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Paula Ciocirlau work with international clients?

Yes, Paula works with international clients.

How much does therapy with Paula Ciocirlau cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be cancelled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire to help match you with Paula. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Therapeutic approaches and online support

Paula uses client-centered therapy to create a respectful, non-judgemental space where clients lead the pace and focus of their work. This approach helps people who want to build self-understanding, improve self-esteem, and explore how their feelings shape relationships. She also applies solution-focused therapy, which concentrates on identifying strengths and practical steps toward achievable goals - a useful method for clients seeking concrete change in areas like stress, career, or relationship patterns. Internal Family Systems is another approach Paula draws on to help clients explore different parts of themselves, understand internal conflicts, and develop greater self-compassion; this can be especially helpful for trauma, grief, or recurring emotional patterns.

Finding the right approach is part of the therapeutic process, and Paula works collaboratively with each client to determine which methods fit their needs, goals, and preferences. She adapts techniques over time so therapy remains responsive and effective for the individual.

Online therapy with Paula is offered by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging, providing flexibility for busy schedules, differing comfort levels, and geographical distance. These options make it easier to access consistent support and continue therapeutic work from wherever the client is located, while allowing registered professionals to tailor sessions to each person’s preferred format.

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