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James Costigan, BACP

Helping men build calm and confidence
  • Stress and anxiety
  • Addiction and relationships
  • Flexible online sessions

About James Costigan

James Costigan offers a calm, attentive approach to therapy, helping men create space to slow down, reflect, and work through whatever is getting in the way of a steadier, more confident life. He focuses on building self-awareness, helping clients make sense of difficult emotions, and developing practical ways to meet stress, anxiety, and relationship challenges.

Specialising in work with men, he recognises that many pressures are held in silence and that recovery often begins with understanding how those pressures shape thoughts, behaviours, and relationships. He supports men facing depression, anxiety, stress, relationship difficulties, addiction concerns including pornography, feelings of being lost, and pressures from professional life and performance expectations.

Therapy with James moves at a pace that suits the individual. He works collaboratively so clients can approach dilemmas with greater clarity, compassion, and confidence, and he draws on his own corporate experience when supporting those navigating workplace or career-related stress. He aims to help clients grow from their struggles, heal from past influences, and move toward the life they want.

Based in the United Kingdom, James is accredited by the BACP (British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy) and has nine years of experience working with men on issues including self-esteem, intimacy, addiction, ADHD, and life transitions.

Areas of Expertise

Primary Focus

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsRelationship issuesSelf esteemCareer difficulties

Additional Focus Areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily problemsFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHoardingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDParanoiaPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic Approach

Client-Centered Therapy Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Mindfulness Therapy

Frequently Asked Questions

How much experience does James Costigan have?

He has nine years of experience.

Is James Costigan a registered therapist?

Yes. He holds the BACP credential - the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy.

In which languages does James Costigan provide therapy?

He provides therapy in English.

Where is James Costigan located?

He is located in the United Kingdom.

How can I work with James Costigan as my therapist?

You can work with James through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does James Costigan work with international clients?

Yes, he works with international clients.

How much does therapy with James Costigan cost?

Costs can vary depending on your location and his availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be cancelled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or via text-based messaging.

Approaches and Benefits of Online Therapeutic Work

Client-Centered Therapy emphasises a respectful, non-directive relationship where the therapist listens deeply and helps clients explore their own values and choices. This approach can be particularly useful for building self-awareness, improving self-esteem, and navigating relationship and identity concerns.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying and changing unhelpful thought patterns and behaviours. It offers practical tools to manage symptoms of anxiety, depression, stress, and certain addictive behaviours by teaching new ways of thinking and coping.

Mindfulness Therapy teaches people to notice thoughts and emotions without judgement and to respond more calmly to difficult experiences. This approach can support stress reduction, emotional regulation, and resilience in the face of everyday pressures.

Finding the right approach is part of the therapeutic journey. Registered professionals and therapists like James work collaboratively with clients to determine which methods best match their needs, goals, and preferences, and they adapt the work as progress is made.

Online therapy offers practical flexibility - video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging make it easier to fit therapy around work, family, and life commitments. These options increase accessibility and allow the therapeutic work to continue consistently, even when schedules or locations change.

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