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Gordon Birnie, NCPS

Psychosexual and relationship therapist in the UK
  • Psychosexual therapy
  • Relationship and multi-partner work
  • LGBTQ+ and gender support

About Gordon Birnie

Gordon Birnie is a UK-qualified psychosexual and relationship therapist who works with individuals, couples and multi-partner relationships. He brings three years of professional experience to his practice and supports clients with LGBTQ+ concerns, gender identity matters and a range of sexual difficulties. He also has substantial experience helping people manage anxiety, depression and the practical challenges that arise during life transitions.

Gordon holds the NCPS credential, which identifies professional training and practice in counselling and psychotherapy. His style is down-to-earth and non-judgmental, focused on creating a space where people can openly explore what is troubling them. He aims to listen closely, help clients identify what they want to change and work collaboratively toward clearer understanding and practical steps forward.

Across individual and relationship work, Gordon integrates attention to emotional connection, communication patterns and sexual health in ways that respect each person and relationship dynamic. His approach emphasizes empathy, practical strategies and a calm, steady presence while clients navigate sensitive or complex issues.

Areas of Expertise

Primary Focus

Also Specializes In

Additional Focus Areas

Attachment issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureCommunication problemsGuilt and shameLife purposeMen's issuesMulticultural concernsPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Sex addictionSexual dysfunctionSexuality

Therapeutic Approach

Client-Centered Therapy Imago Relationship Therapy Solution-Focused Therapy

Frequently Asked Questions

How much experience does Gordon Birnie have?

He has 3 years of professional experience.

Is Gordon Birnie a registered therapist?

Yes. He holds the NCPS credential, a professional qualification in counselling and psychotherapy. No further registration details were provided.

In which languages does Gordon Birnie provide therapy?

He provides therapy in English.

Where is Gordon Birnie located?

He is based in the United Kingdom.

How can I work with Gordon Birnie as my therapist?

You can work with Gordon Birnie through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Gordon Birnie work with international clients?

Gordon Birnie does not currently work with international clients.

How much does therapy with Gordon Birnie cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be cancelled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started is quick. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Integrating therapeutic approaches for online relationship and sexual health work

Client-Centered Therapy focuses on creating an accepting, empathetic space where the client leads the conversation and the therapist reflects and supports personal insight. It helps with emotional exploration, self-esteem and relationship concerns. Imago Relationship Therapy concentrates on improving communication between partners by exploring how past experiences shape present interactions and teaching practical dialogue techniques to rebuild connection and reduce conflict. Solution-Focused Therapy is brief and goal-oriented, helping clients identify practical steps and strengths they can use immediately to address specific issues such as stress, anxiety or relationship frustrations.

Finding the right approach is part of the collaborative process. Gordon works with clients to identify which methods align with their needs, goals and preferences, adapting techniques as therapy progresses to ensure the best fit. Registered professionals and therapists use these options flexibly to respond to each person and relationship.

Online therapy offers practical benefits: video calls allow face-to-face interaction, phone sessions provide an audio-only option, and live chat or text messaging can suit those who prefer writing. These formats increase flexibility for scheduling, make it easier to attend sessions from home or other locations, and support consistent access to care despite busy lives or geographic constraints.

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