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Gary Mewes, BACP

Compassionate UK therapist for adults and couples
  • Stress and anxiety
  • Addiction support
  • Couples therapy

About Gary Mewes

Gary Mewes is a United Kingdom-based therapist with seven years of professional experience who supports both adults and couples through a wide range of life challenges. He holds accreditation with the BACP, the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, which reflects his commitment to recognised standards of practice. Gary works with presentations such as depression, anxiety, stress, addictions including sex and porn problems, and relationship and intimacy-related issues, and he also offers focused support for concerns like abandonment, attachment and avoidant personality patterns, caregiver stress, commitment and communication difficulties, control issues, separation and divorce, feelings of emptiness, family and fatherhood matters, forgiveness, guilt and shame, infidelity, and loneliness.

Working from an evidence-informed blend of approaches, Gary aims to create an open, nonjudgmental space where thoughts and feelings can be explored and practical steps toward change can be developed. He uses client-centered techniques to prioritise the client's experience, cognitive behavioral strategies to identify and shift unhelpful patterns, and relationship-focused methods when couples bring their concerns. Gary emphasises collaboration, helping each person define goals and choose the approaches that best fit their situation, and he supports clients through the first courageous steps toward a more satisfying and balanced life.

Areas of Expertise

Additional Focus Areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityCaregiver issues and stressCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-loveSex addictionSexual dysfunctionSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issues

Therapeutic Approach

Client-Centered Therapy Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Gottman Method Imago Relationship Therapy

Frequently Asked Questions

How much experience does Gary Mewes have?

He has 7 years of professional experience working with adults and couples on issues such as depression, anxiety, addictions, and relationship concerns.

Is Gary Mewes a registered therapist?

Yes. He holds the BACP credential - the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy.

In which languages does Gary Mewes provide therapy?

Gary provides therapy in English.

Where is Gary Mewes located?

He is located in the United Kingdom.

How can I work with Gary Mewes as my therapist?

You can work with Gary through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Gary Mewes work with international clients?

Gary does not currently work with international clients.

How much does therapy with Gary Mewes cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be cancelled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Therapeutic approaches for online support

Gary draws on client-centered therapy to ensure the client's experience guides the work - this approach focuses on empathic listening, acceptance, and helping people explore their feelings at their own pace, which is helpful for building trust and self-understanding. He also uses cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), which involves identifying unhelpful thoughts and patterns and developing practical strategies to reduce symptoms of anxiety, depression, and stress. For couples, Gary integrates elements of the Gottman Method to improve communication, manage conflict, and strengthen emotional connection between partners.

Choosing the right approach is part of the therapeutic process, and Gary works collaboratively with clients to determine which methods align best with their needs, goals, and personal preferences. That collaborative approach helps tailor sessions and adapt techniques as progress unfolds.

Online therapy with Gary offers practical flexibility - sessions can be scheduled as video calls, phone appointments, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different routines and comfort levels. These options make it easier for people to access care from home or work, maintain continuity when life is busy, and stay engaged with therapy in ways that suit their daily lives.

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