Demelza (Demi) Rowe, BACP
Integrative therapist for relationships and trauma
- Relationships and intimacy
- Trauma and abuse
- Person-centered care
About Demelza (Demi) Rowe
Demelza (Demi) Rowe is a United Kingdom based therapist with sixteen years of clinical experience who works with people facing a wide range of mental health and relationship challenges. She holds the BACP credential - the UK professional association for counsellors and psychotherapists - and brings specialist training in couples and relationship counselling, grief and bereavement, trauma, abuse, and mental health.
Her practice focuses on issues such as PTSD, depression, anxiety, dissociation, personality disorders, and difficulties around sex, intimacy, and relationships. Demi also supports people dealing with stress, parenting and family matters, eating and sleeping problems, career concerns, bipolar disorder, ADHD, and grief among other challenges. She has worked with individuals and couples across many situations that cause distress, conflict, or breakdown in connection.
Demi describes her approach as integrative and grounded in person-centered values. She weaves together the foundations of unconditional positive regard, a non-judgmental stance, and congruence with techniques drawn from cognitive behavioural methods, gestalt, psychodynamic work, transactional analysis, and rational emotive approaches. Therapy is tailored to each person or couple so that explanations, strategies, and interventions are clear, practical, and understandable. She prioritises helping people develop skills, information, and perspectives that support healthier relationships, increased confidence, and improved daily functioning.
Understanding how hard it can be to reach out, Demi encourages people to consider the step toward support and to make choices their future self will appreciate.
Her practice focuses on issues such as PTSD, depression, anxiety, dissociation, personality disorders, and difficulties around sex, intimacy, and relationships. Demi also supports people dealing with stress, parenting and family matters, eating and sleeping problems, career concerns, bipolar disorder, ADHD, and grief among other challenges. She has worked with individuals and couples across many situations that cause distress, conflict, or breakdown in connection.
Demi describes her approach as integrative and grounded in person-centered values. She weaves together the foundations of unconditional positive regard, a non-judgmental stance, and congruence with techniques drawn from cognitive behavioural methods, gestalt, psychodynamic work, transactional analysis, and rational emotive approaches. Therapy is tailored to each person or couple so that explanations, strategies, and interventions are clear, practical, and understandable. She prioritises helping people develop skills, information, and perspectives that support healthier relationships, increased confidence, and improved daily functioning.
Understanding how hard it can be to reach out, Demi encourages people to consider the step toward support and to make choices their future self will appreciate.
Areas of Expertise
Primary Focus
Also Specializes In
LGBTFamily conflictsGriefEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD
Additional Focus Areas
AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBody imageCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaTrichotillomaniaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues
Therapeutic Approach
Attachment-Based Therapy Client-Centered Therapy Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Mindfulness Therapy Solution-Focused Therapy Trauma-Focused Therapy
Frequently Asked Questions
How much experience does Demelza (Demi) Rowe have?
Demelza (Demi) Rowe has sixteen years of experience working as a therapist with individuals and couples across a range of mental health and relationship concerns.
Is Demelza (Demi) Rowe a registered therapist?
Yes. She holds the BACP credential. BACP is the UK professional association for counsellors and psychotherapists.
In which languages does Demelza (Demi) Rowe provide therapy?
Therapy is provided in English.
Where is Demelza (Demi) Rowe located?
She is located in the United Kingdom.
How can I work with Demelza (Demi) Rowe as my therapist?
You can work with Demelza (Demi) Rowe through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.
Does Demelza (Demi) Rowe work with international clients?
Demelza (Demi) Rowe does not currently work with international clients.
How much does therapy with Demelza (Demi) Rowe cost?
The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be cancelled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.
How can I get started with therapy?
Getting started is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.
Attachment, Client-Centered, and CBT in Online Care
Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on how early and current relationship patterns shape feelings of safety and connection. It helps people understand attachment styles and improves how they relate to partners, family members, and close friends, which can be useful for intimacy, abandonment concerns, and relationship conflict.
Client-Centered Therapy, also called person-centered work, offers a supportive, non-judgmental space where the therapist follows the client’s pace and priorities. This approach emphasizes empathy, respect, and helping people find their own solutions to issues like low self-esteem, life changes, or grief.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is a practical, skills-based approach that identifies unhelpful thought and behaviour patterns and teaches strategies to manage anxiety, depression, stress, and other symptoms. CBT techniques aim to give clear tools clients can use between sessions.
Finding the right blend of methods is a collaborative process. Registered professionals and therapists work with each person to select approaches that match their needs, goals, and preferences, adapting techniques over time as progress is made.
Online therapy offers flexible ways to engage with these approaches through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging. These options make it easier to fit therapy into busy lives, access support from home, and maintain continuity of care even when schedules or locations change.
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