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Bilkan Kilicer, BACP

Integrative psychodynamic counsellor for trauma recovery
  • Trauma and abuse support
  • Exploring past and present
  • Nonjudgmental listening and reflection

About Bilkan Kilicer

Bilkan Kilicer is an integrative psychodynamic counsellor who helps people examine what is happening in their lives now and how earlier experiences continue to shape their patterns and feelings. She combines careful attention to present-day concerns with exploration of past influences to support clearer self-understanding and lasting change. Bilkan brings warmth, patience, and empathy to each session, creating a space where difficult or painful material can be addressed at a pace that feels manageable.

She has a particular interest in working with people who have experienced trauma and aims to accompany them through recovery with steady, nonjudgmental support. Her therapeutic stance emphasizes connection and curiosity - helping clients notice recurring patterns, make sense of their reactions, and discover new ways of relating to themselves and others. Bilkan holds BACP, the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy credential, which denotes professional affiliation with a UK counselling body.

Bilkan’s role is to walk alongside clients, offering reflection and practical support as they explore what healing and change might look like. She welcomes those seeking someone who will listen deeply, take time to understand their experience, and support gradual progress toward clearer emotional balance and renewed hope.

Areas of Expertise

Primary Focus

Also Specializes In

LGBTFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional Focus Areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthSelf-harmSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic Approach

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) Attachment-Based Therapy Client-Centered Therapy Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) Existential Therapy Mindfulness Therapy Psychodynamic Therapy

Frequently Asked Questions

How much experience does Bilkan Kilicer have?

Bilkan Kilicer has 6 years of professional experience.

Is Bilkan Kilicer a registered therapist?

Yes. Bilkan holds BACP, the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, which is a recognised professional body for counsellors and psychotherapists in the United Kingdom.

In which languages does Bilkan Kilicer provide therapy?

Bilkan provides therapy in English.

Where is Bilkan Kilicer located?

Bilkan is located in the United Kingdom.

How can I work with Bilkan Kilicer as my therapist?

You can work with Bilkan through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Bilkan Kilicer work with international clients?

Yes. Bilkan works with international clients.

How much does therapy with Bilkan Kilicer cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be cancelled at any time, for any reason. For current details, just click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started with therapy is quick and straightforward. Just click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Approaches that guide online therapeutic support

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people develop greater psychological flexibility by learning to accept difficult thoughts and feelings while committing to actions that reflect personal values. It can be useful for anxiety, stress, and making life changes. Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on how early relationships shape current ways of connecting and helps people repair or re-pattern relational habits, which can be especially helpful for trauma, intimacy issues, and relationship difficulties. Client-Centered Therapy emphasizes an empathic, nonjudgmental therapeutic relationship in which the therapist offers understanding and reflection to support a person’s own capacity for growth and self-discovery.

Finding the right approach is part of the therapeutic journey. Bilkan works collaboratively with each person to identify which methods best fit their needs, goals, and preferences, and she adapts the work as progress unfolds. This collaborative process helps ensure therapy feels relevant and manageable.

Online therapy offers practical flexibility - sessions by video call or phone allow face-to-face connection without travel, while live chat and text-based messaging provide accessible ways to communicate between or instead of scheduled sessions. These options make it easier to receive consistent support around busy schedules, geographic barriers, or personal comfort levels while working with a registered professional who can tailor the approach to individual circumstances.

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