Benjamin ('Beni') Fleischer, BACP
Guiding men through mid-life change
- Anxiety and depression
- Client-centered care
- BACP ethical framework
About Benjamin ('Beni') Fleischer
Benjamin ('Beni') Fleischer works from a simple guiding idea: a person s relationship to others and to events in life is rooted in their relationship with themselves. He frames this relationship as made up of two realms - the revealed, which can be identified and named, and the hidden, which includes deeper influences such as background, personality, family, community, religion, race, gender and sexuality. He believes that when people engage with those hidden aspects they gain greater awareness, choice and a stronger sense of self.
Benjamin encourages clients to see life s challenges as opportunities for learning rather than experiences to be endured in survival mode. He acknowledges that it can be hard to understand why one feels a certain way, and that exploring those unknown areas takes effort. Through conversation and reflective work he supports people to process their experiences so that they can face fears, use their strengths and accept their limitations in ways that feel rewarding and growth oriented.
Drawing both on his professional training and his own personal experience of a mid-life transition, Benjamin aims to accompany clients at their own pace in a non-judgmental atmosphere. He has particular experience supporting men aged 35-50 navigating mid-life issues, although his work encompasses anxiety, depression and related concerns on a one-to-one basis. Trained in integrative humanistic counselling and in spiritual self-awareness from a Jewish Orthodox Torah perspective, he has worked with diverse clients during his time with the NHS.
Benjamin s practice operates under professional supervision and within the ethical framework of the BACP (British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy). Sessions are conducted with regard for professional standards and client care.
Benjamin encourages clients to see life s challenges as opportunities for learning rather than experiences to be endured in survival mode. He acknowledges that it can be hard to understand why one feels a certain way, and that exploring those unknown areas takes effort. Through conversation and reflective work he supports people to process their experiences so that they can face fears, use their strengths and accept their limitations in ways that feel rewarding and growth oriented.
Drawing both on his professional training and his own personal experience of a mid-life transition, Benjamin aims to accompany clients at their own pace in a non-judgmental atmosphere. He has particular experience supporting men aged 35-50 navigating mid-life issues, although his work encompasses anxiety, depression and related concerns on a one-to-one basis. Trained in integrative humanistic counselling and in spiritual self-awareness from a Jewish Orthodox Torah perspective, he has worked with diverse clients during his time with the NHS.
Benjamin s practice operates under professional supervision and within the ethical framework of the BACP (British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy). Sessions are conducted with regard for professional standards and client care.
Areas of Expertise
Primary Focus
Also Specializes In
Additional Focus Areas
AbandonmentAvoidant personalityCancerCodependencyCommitment issuesControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-loveSexual dysfunctionSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues
Therapeutic Approach
Client-Centered Therapy Psychodynamic Therapy Solution-Focused Therapy
Frequently Asked Questions
How much experience does Benjamin ('Beni') Fleischer have?
He has 6 years of experience in counselling and therapeutic work.
Is Benjamin ('Beni') Fleischer a registered therapist?
Yes. He holds the BACP credential. The BACP is the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy.
In which languages does Benjamin ('Beni') Fleischer provide therapy?
He provides therapy in English, Hebrew and Yiddish.
Where is Benjamin ('Beni') Fleischer located?
He is located in the United Kingdom.
How can I work with Benjamin ('Beni') Fleischer as my therapist?
You can work with him through video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text-based messaging.
Does Benjamin ('Beni') Fleischer work with international clients?
Yes, he works with international clients.
How much does therapy with Benjamin ('Beni') Fleischer cost?
Costs can vary depending on factors such as your location and his availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be cancelled at any time, for any reason. For current pricing and details, please click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.
How can I get started with therapy?
Getting started is straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session by phone, video call, live chat or in-app messaging.
Therapeutic Approaches for Online Support and Change
Benjamin uses client-centered therapy to create a space where the client s own experience and perspective guide the work. This approach emphasizes empathy, active listening and supporting people to find their own solutions, which is helpful for issues like low self-esteem, anxiety and coping with life changes.He also draws on psychodynamic therapy to explore patterns that originate from deeper, often unconscious influences such as family history and long-standing relationship dynamics. This style can help when someone wants to understand repeating patterns, unresolved past experiences or the roots of emotional reactions.
Finding the right approach is collaborative. Benjamin works with clients to identify which methods fit their needs, goals and preferences, and adapts the pace and focus as the therapeutic relationship develops.
Online therapy with video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text-based messaging offers flexibility for people balancing work, family and other commitments. These options make it possible to access support from different locations and to choose a mode of communication that feels most comfortable, helping therapy to fit more easily into everyday life.
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