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Understanding prejudice and discrimination

Prejudice and discrimination refer to negative attitudes and actions directed at people because of who they are - their race, religion, gender, sexuality, disability, age or other identifying characteristics. These experiences can be overt, such as exclusion or verbal abuse, or more subtle, such as microaggressions, assumptions and institutional barriers. The effects are both emotional and practical. You may find that repeated exposure to biased treatment affects your sense of self, your relationships and your ability to function at work or in everyday life.

When you have been targeted by prejudice, the impact often extends beyond the event itself. You may replay what happened, feel wary in situations that remind you of the incident, or withdraw from people and places where you previously felt comfortable. At times these responses are adaptive - they help you avoid further harm - but over the long term they can make life feel smaller and more stressful. Therapy can be a place to untangle those reactions, build coping strategies and restore a sense of agency.

Signs you might benefit from therapy

You might choose to seek support when the emotional load of discriminatory experiences starts to affect your day-to-day life. You may notice persistent feelings of sadness, anger or anxiety that do not ease with time. Sleep disturbances, recurring intrusive thoughts, hypervigilance or difficulty concentrating at work or study can all indicate that the impact is ongoing. Relationships may feel strained if it is hard to explain your experience, or you may find yourself avoiding social situations where you fear prejudice might occur.

If you feel your identity has been shaken, or you are struggling to process distressing incidents, therapy can offer a structured space to explore those responses. You do not need to wait until symptoms are severe to seek help. Early support can reduce long-term strain and help you develop practical strategies to manage triggers and navigate difficult environments.

What to expect in sessions focused on prejudice and discrimination

When you start therapy for issues related to prejudice and discrimination, the first sessions will typically involve a conversation about your current difficulties, your history and what you hope to achieve. Your therapist will ask about the ways prejudice has affected you - emotionally, socially and practically - so they can understand the context. Goals might include reducing anxiety, rebuilding self-esteem, improving relationships or learning ways to respond to discriminatory behaviour in the moment.

Therapists will work with you to create a safe setting where your experiences are heard and validated. You will be encouraged to describe incidents in your own words and to explore their meaning for you. Sessions can combine emotional processing with skill-building, so you both make sense of the harm and develop tools to manage stress, communicate your needs and set boundaries. Some people use therapy to process a single traumatic event, while others benefit from longer-term work to address ongoing structural or identity-related issues.

Practical considerations during therapy

Therapists in the UK typically provide an initial consultation to see if you and the therapist are a good fit. This is an opportunity to ask about their experience working with prejudice and discrimination, their therapeutic approach and registration with recognised bodies such as BACP, HCPC or NCPS. You should also discuss practicalities like session length, fees, cancellation policies and whether they offer face-to-face, telephone or video appointments. If you have accessibility needs or prefer a clinician who shares aspects of your identity, it is appropriate to raise this when you first contact them.

Common therapeutic approaches

Several therapeutic approaches are commonly used to address the effects of prejudice and discrimination. Trauma-informed therapies are helpful if you are dealing with distressing or traumatic incidents, because they focus on safety, pacing and stabilisation alongside processing. Cognitive behavioural approaches can help you notice and reframe unhelpful thought patterns that arise from repeated unfair treatment, and they offer practical coping strategies for anxiety and mood changes. Narrative approaches invite you to re-author the stories you tell about yourself, separating your identity from the hurtful messages you have received from others.

Other helpful approaches include acceptance and commitment work, which supports you to clarify your values and take action despite difficult thoughts or feelings, and culturally informed counselling that recognises the role of identity and community in healing. Some therapists combine approaches to match your needs. It is reasonable to ask a clinician how they adapt their methods when working with experiences of discrimination, and whether they have specific training in areas such as racial trauma, LGBT+ issues or disability awareness.

How online therapy works for this specialty

Online therapy has become a widely used option in the UK and can be particularly useful when specialist local provision is limited. You can access clinicians with relevant experience regardless of location, which may increase the chance of finding someone who understands the nuances of your experience. Sessions are usually conducted by video call, telephone or text-based messaging, and many therapists offer a combination depending on your preference.

To get the most from online work, choose a quiet comfortable environment where you will not be interrupted. Check what technology the therapist uses and whether there are guidance notes about how to handle disruptions or technical problems. You should also confirm how they manage your personal information and records. If you prefer face-to-face contact, enquire whether the therapist has a local practice or can recommend services in your area. For some people, meeting someone in person helps with feeling seen; for others, the distance of online sessions makes it easier to speak openly about painful experiences.

Choosing the right therapist for prejudice and discrimination

When selecting a therapist, prioritise those who demonstrate cultural competence and a willingness to engage with the social and political context of your experience. You may prefer a clinician who is registered with BACP, HCPC or NCPS, or who can outline relevant training and experience. It is reasonable to ask about their approach to working with prejudice - whether they adopt a trauma-informed stance, how they manage power dynamics in the therapeutic relationship and how they support clients who face ongoing discrimination in daily life.

Consider practical matters such as fees, appointment times and whether they offer short-term or long-term work. Trust your instincts about the therapeutic relationship - you should feel heard and respected. Many therapists offer a first meeting at a reduced rate or a free introductory call so you can get a sense of whether their style suits you. If a therapist is not the right fit, you can seek another clinician; the most effective work often begins when you find someone with whom you feel comfortable exploring sensitive material.

When to seek additional support

If you are in immediate danger or at risk of harm, contact emergency services or local crisis lines without delay. You can also speak to your GP about NHS services, including counselling and mental health pathways. If you are unsure where to begin, an initial appointment with a counsellor can help you clarify next steps, whether that means focused short-term work or a longer therapeutic programme that addresses the cumulative effects of prejudice and discrimination.

Dealing with prejudice and discrimination can be exhausting and isolating, but you do not have to manage it alone. Finding a therapist who understands the wider context of your experience and who can help you build coping strategies, restore wellbeing and strengthen your sense of identity can make a meaningful difference.